Name calling in the name of butt hurt is NEVER good manners.
The other person took it down. Maybe he didn't want that part of himself shared any more. Whatever the reason, he took his down.
If the other person liked the video so much that they shared it, how hard would it be to say hey, can I share this? I have asked if it was OK if I recced a fic somewhere. I know some folks prefer not to be recced in some places, that is their right.
IF I saw someone's work there, that I knew didn't want their stuff there, I would have said so.
I was once looking for corsets, and ran across pictures from another person's site. Since I had bought a corset from her, I knew how much effort she put into them. I just show her a quick note saying hey, saw this... do you know about it? She came back with she did know, she was working with some new distributors, but that she really appreciated me keeping a weather eye out for her.
I am sure others will see it differently, but I don't think you were being a 'snitch'. Nor where you doing anything wrong. You were just concerned for the rights of someone whose honesty you appreciated. And really... a lot of the time, it isn't that hard to ask permission. Particularly if you want to share something as personal as a video journal, or writing.
HUGS. You are fine. Though I do think you would look cute with golden wings :)
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The other person took it down. Maybe he didn't want that part of himself shared any more. Whatever the reason, he took his down.
If the other person liked the video so much that they shared it, how hard would it be to say hey, can I share this? I have asked if it was OK if I recced a fic somewhere. I know some folks prefer not to be recced in some places, that is their right.
IF I saw someone's work there, that I knew didn't want their stuff there, I would have said so.
I was once looking for corsets, and ran across pictures from another person's site. Since I had bought a corset from her, I knew how much effort she put into them. I just show her a quick note saying hey, saw this... do you know about it? She came back with she did know, she was working with some new distributors, but that she really appreciated me keeping a weather eye out for her.
I am sure others will see it differently, but I don't think you were being a 'snitch'. Nor where you doing anything wrong. You were just concerned for the rights of someone whose honesty you appreciated. And really... a lot of the time, it isn't that hard to ask permission. Particularly if you want to share something as personal as a video journal, or writing.
HUGS. You are fine. Though I do think you would look cute with golden wings :)