Sometimes I also wish I had a paintball course at home and I could just shoot at the imagined targets randomly, possibly yelling insults all the while. ;) *weird thestral is weird* If you want to cry - no one should be stopping you. It's not a weakness, you know, it's a way to get emotions and stress out of the system so you can think clearly and act sanely. Think of it as melting the tension and have the excess pour out in tears. It might leave you feeling a bit empty, but you need to put some good emotions into the void. Go do good things with yourself instead of bad ones. Sleep, read, draw, write, watch your favourite show or a silly youtube video (possibly a fan made one with your favourite pairing ;)). I've talked to cutters enough to understand what it does for them when they cut themselves - apparently it's a form of instant relief, but those quick fixes never work in a long run, you need to find a way to deal with this in a healthier way. And now I sound like an annoying shrink and not a friend at all, do I? :( I have the best intentions, but I don't know how to fix this for you, babe, I'm kind of hoping you'll find a way on your own, because I'd miss you, if one day, you'd be gone. My specialty: jumbo-jet-sized-hugs for you, Madame! I hope a better day is just a night away.
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on 2014-09-23 06:56 am (UTC)If you want to cry - no one should be stopping you. It's not a weakness, you know, it's a way to get emotions and stress out of the system so you can think clearly and act sanely. Think of it as melting the tension and have the excess pour out in tears. It might leave you feeling a bit empty, but you need to put some good emotions into the void. Go do good things with yourself instead of bad ones. Sleep, read, draw, write, watch your favourite show or a silly youtube video (possibly a fan made one with your favourite pairing ;)).
I've talked to cutters enough to understand what it does for them when they cut themselves - apparently it's a form of instant relief, but those quick fixes never work in a long run, you need to find a way to deal with this in a healthier way. And now I sound like an annoying shrink and not a friend at all, do I? :( I have the best intentions, but I don't know how to fix this for you, babe, I'm kind of hoping you'll find a way on your own, because I'd miss you, if one day, you'd be gone.
My specialty: jumbo-jet-sized-hugs for you, Madame! I hope a better day is just a night away.