May I trouble you for some hugs, please?

[bleedingangel84]

Any and all hugs, flashy hearts or what have you would be much appreciated. I'm feeling highly emotional and extremely frustrated/sad angry/numb/tired/in-need-of-chocolate  I hate to even ask because it seems so many of us are facing things right now, but none of what I'm facing is happening directly to me. It's more like a constellation of bodily fluids of all kinds decided to erupt around me and I was unlucky enough to get my feet barfed on while everyone else got covered head-to-toe, if you catch my meaning.

Part of me is wondering whether I have the right to complain at all when there are so much worse things happening to people I love, but I know if I don't keep myself healthy and get support when it's needed, i won't be of use to anyone else.So that said, I'm asking for some squishes, because my night was supremely sucky, and comfort would be much, much appreciated, if you feel inclined to offer it.
Thank you. I hope life is treating everyone kindly.

Comments

[alexicyn.livejournal.com]

Sneaks up and HUGGLES you silly!!!

Yes, you have a right to complain. Even if you don't have it as shitty as someone else, it doesn't mean your shitty isn't important.

Sometimes I walk a lot, and my feet hurt. Now, if I complained to someone with no feet, about my feet hurting, that would be stupid and insensitive. HOWEVER, if I am just hanging around with friends, and say damn, my feet hurt, it doesn't make them hurt any less because someone has it worse than me. I am just lucky I don't have it as bad as them, but my bad still blows for that moment in time.

And FARK, I think I just confused myself...

What I am trying to say is, don't feel guilty about complaining or feeling down because someone else has it worse than you. Someone will always have it worse than us, but that doesn't mean our problems aren't important, big enough to feel bad about, or what not.

I have complained about my husband before, and I wanted to smack the person that said "Well, at least YOU have a husband to complain about!" Instead I smiled and said "Ya want him? I can have him packed and ready by the weekend." :D

HUGS

We all have our down moments. Because others are having hard times, doesn't mean yours is less important. It's good that you recognize you needed a bit extra.

*Tucks you in with a nice blanket, a warm beverage of choice and some Drarry reading*

http://keiramarcos.com/fan-fiction-index/harry-potter/the-war-mages-trilogy/ (she finished the first book)

and

http://keiramarcos.com/fan-fiction-index/harry-potter/birth-of-the-serpent-king/

The two stories that got me started reading fan fic in Nov, 2012

HUGS Hope you feel better, and hope the sick storm settles soon.

[bleedingangel84.livejournal.com]

Thank you so much for your kind words of support and the reading material. That will definitely go a long way toward making me feel better, and I really appreciate it. :) *huggle glomps*